2026 has been a strange year so far, and we haven’t even reached the halfway point yet.
Handling the aftermath of a sudden death in January has taken a surprising amount of my time and resulted in several unexpected visits back to the UK. Contacting friends and relatives, organising the funeral, sorting out all the financial information and paperwork that was necessary for the solicitor, emptying the house that I’ve now inherited and readying it to put on the market… it’s taken a lot of time and effort. So far this year, I’ve spent more weeks in England than in the Netherlands. Thankfully, I have a very understanding family, who may not have understood why I felt obliged to take on that responsibility myself, but accepted that I did. Somewhere in the middle of it all, we lost Puk, one of our cats: I’ll miss his daily demands for personal fuss time and love of nose boinks. And all the while I’m also trying to plan a wedding.
Perhaps not surprisingly, with all that going on, I haven’t had the time (nor the focus) for writing over the last few months.
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